Genuine repentance is not apathetic toward sin; it is not indifferent about making restitution or restoring a relationship that has been damaged by sin. Genuine repentance beholds the seriousness of sin and is eager to deal with it biblically. And how do you do that?
You do everything you can to make sure your repentance is as public as your sin was. You conduct yourself so that everyone who knew of your sin now knows that you have put off that unrighteousness, and that you have begun putting on the appropriate fruit of the Spirit in its place.
If your sin was gossip, you now endeavor to be known as one who speaks truth and never evil of another; if your sin was impatience toward someone, you now go out of your way to show them grace. You desire to be known for righteousness because you bear the Name of the Righteous One, and desire to bring no reproach upon His reputation. Those who repent of sin are righteously angry with themselves for having sinned against God.
That is the fruit of genuine repentance: an eagerness and a zeal—not a reluctance—to demonstrate a changed life to all those affected by your sin; an indignation with yourself and your sin, born out of the utmost reverence for God rather than for yourself or what other people think of you; a longing for the restoration of any relationship damaged by your sin; and a genuine concern that justice would be upheld as sin is disciplined and dealt with biblically. Be sure to examine whether your repentance is marked by these biblical characteristics.
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Defining Repentance One of the most common definitions of repentance is a change of mind. Express your feelings in a tangible or creative way. Or you could release your emotions by making a scrapbook or volunteering for a cause related to your loss. Try to maintain your hobbies and interests.
Look after your physical health. The mind and body are connected. Combat stress and fatigue by getting enough sleep, eating right, and exercising. Authors: Melinda Smith, M. American Psychiatric Association. Depressive Disorders. Zisook, S. Grief and bereavement: What psychiatrists need to know. World Psychiatry, 8 2 , 67— Stroebe, M. Health outcomes of bereavement. The Lancet, , — Simon, N. Informing the symptom profile of complicated grief. Depression and Anxiety, 28 2 , — Corr, C. Enhancing the Concept of Disenfranchised Grief.
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Find Support — Directory of programs and support groups in the U. National Alliance for Grieving Children. Chapter Locator for finding help for grieving the loss of a child in the U. The Compassionate Friends. In this regard, it is interesting that—in the author's experience — severely depressed individuals who have recovered or achieved remission with antidepressant therapy consistently report the ability to experience ordinary sorrow or sadness.
This might be interpreted as reflecting differing neurobiological substrates for major depression and ordinary sadness. On the other hand, some research finds that, in patients who meet DSM-IV criteria for both major depression and bereavement, response to an antidepressant [bupropion] produces a concomitant reduction in both depressive symptoms and intensity of grief [ 32 ].
This could be consistent with some degree of "biochemical overlap" between depression and bereavement, in those who meet criteria for both conditions. However, this does not rule out neurobiological differences between those with depression alone versus those with bereavement alone. Further support for the biological separation of normal sadness and clinical depression comes from very recent research on deep brain stimulation DBS in extremely refractory cases of major depression.
DBS entails the implantation of a tiny device called a "brain pacemaker", which sends electrical impulses to specific parts of the brain. DBS has been approved by the U. Food and Drug Administration for use in the treatment of Parkinson's disease and other movement disorders [ 33 ]. A small pilot study by Mayberg and colleagues [ 34 ] found that chronic deep brain stimulation DBS of the subgenual cingulate region Brodmann area 25 resulted in "a striking and sustained remission of depression" in four of six patients with very resistant depression.
All patients met DSM-IV criteria for major depression, and all had failed to respond to at least four treatments for depression medication, psychotherapy, or electroconvulsive therapy. It is noteworthy that, in an attempt to control for placebo effects, the researchers performed a "blinded discontinuation" of the DBS in one patient who had experienced an early and robust response to treatment.
After a period of about a month—and despite sustained euthymia normal mood on the Hamilton Depression Rating Scale—the patient began to exhibit a progressive decrease in energy, initiative, and concentration. When the correct stimulation frequency was restored with the patient still "blinded" to the procedure , the patient's energy, initiative and concentration returned to pre-discontinuation levels within a week.
One post-study finding from this research group is of crucial importance to the "differentiation hypothesis"; i. Helen Mayberg, one of the lead investigators, reports that, after these severely depressed patients improve with DBS, they are fully able to experience the normal range of emotions , including ordinary sadness.
Mayberg has found that in these recovered patients, " Also consistent with the differentiation hypothesis is a study by O'Connor et al [ 35 ] that examined autonomic function in subjects with either bereavement or depression.
The bereaved subjects had all lost a close friend or family member, within the past two years, with an average period of about five months since the death. The researchers found that bereaved subjects showed significantly greater heart rate than either depressed or normal subjects.
Not only did this study suggest a specific pattern of cardiovascular response in bereavement, it also raised questions regarding the so-called "broken heart" phenomenon—the observation that some grieving individuals may experience sudden cardiac death. If such a link were proved, it would certainly cast doubt on the much-touted notion [ 20 ] that bereavement is simply a "normal", "healthy" or evolutionarily adaptive response to loss.
Najib et al [ 31 ] opine that we are already able—albeit in a simplistic way—to "map" various experiential aspects of depression on to specific brain regions. For example, abnormalities in hypothalamic activity appear to correlate with alterations in sleep, appetite, and neuroendocrine dysfunction. Hyperactivity in the amygdala, they believe, " Are we so far, then, from being able to map the patient's sense of existential isolation, hopelessness , or defeat [ 31 ] onto specific, abnormally functioning brain regions?
The answer may become more apparent in the next few decades of brain research. However, the diagnostic and therapeutic implications of such knowledge are far from clear. It seems to me that whatever the PET or fMRI findings may be in such a "brave new world", the psychiatrist's existential encounter with the patient [ 36 - 38 ] will remain critical in determining both diagnosis and treatment. Helen Mayberg, considering the available neurobiological data, has opined that, " Moreover—notwithstanding the preliminary state of the evidence—the hypotheses developed in this paper allow us to generate a number of empirically testable predictions.
For example, I would predict that among depressed individuals who experience severe distortions in the relational, temporal, dialectical, and intentional realms , we are likely to find a a higher frequency of treatment-resistant depression ; and b a higher frequency of markedly abnormal findings on fMRI and PET imaging.
If such predictions are borne out, this may have important treatment implications. For example, severe distortions in the phenomenological realm may someday point us toward especially effective neurobiological or psychosocial interventions. In the mean time, the hypotheses developed here might encourage researchers to develop semi-structured interviews or rating scales, aimed at quantifying pathology in the phenomenological realm.
Though our mythic and literary heritage depicts ordinary grief and clinical depression as more or less discrete existential categories, it seems more likely that these conditions lie along a complex spectrum or continuum of dysphoric states. Moving from less to more severe, we may distinguish normal sadness or sorrow; normal grief; complicated pathological grief ; and major depression as gradations along this continuum.
Though this continuum may be characterized by very subtle gradations, both clinical and phenomenological features can help us distinguish normal sadness from severe, clinical depression. The syndrome of "complicated grief" pathological mourning may serve as a conceptual and phenomenological bridge between ordinary sorrow or grief, and major depression.
That said, both the components and boundaries of such a proposed continuum may be subject to debate. For example, should we exclude states of "normal sadness" and simply consider more incapacitating dysphoric states? And can we ever express, in objective terms, the subtle gradations and almost endless range of human emotional states?
Certainly, the continuum proposed here should not be reified or made into a rigid instrument of classification; it is, at best, a heuristic tool in service of understanding the patient. However we answer these questions, I believe that an understanding of the phenomenological "lifeworld" of the patient [ 36 - 38 ] must be incorporated into pluralistic models of depression. In time, we may come to understand how the phenomenology of depression and "proper sorrows" relates to their neurobiological substrates.
Indeed, I believe that a full understanding of sorrow and depression will synthesize insights from spiritual, phenomenological and neurobiological perspectives. He is interested in the connection between mental health care and various spiritual traditions. The author wishes to thank Dr. Helen Mayberg and Dr.
Richard M. Berlin for their assistance with portions of this paper. The author also acknowledges the seminal contributions of Dr. Paula Clayton, in the areas of bereavement and classification of depression. National Center for Biotechnology Information , U. Philos Ethics Humanit Med. Published online Jun Ronald Pies 1, 2. Ronald Pies 1 Department of Psychiatry, S. Author information Article notes Copyright and License information Disclaimer.
Corresponding author. Ronald Pies: gro. Received Feb 6; Accepted Jun Abstract There is considerable controversy, both within and outside the field of psychiatry, regarding the boundaries of normal sadness and clinical depression. Introduction The field of psychiatry has always sought to incorporate insights from disciplines outside the realm of biology, notwithstanding the widespread notion that "biological psychiatry" is now the field's dominant paradigm.
A brief spiritual history of sorrow and depression Psychiatrists and psychologists are hardly the only ones who have recognized the difference between clinical depression and "normal" sadness or sorrow. Rabbi Levi Yitzchak of Berditchev — wrote, "There are two kinds of sorrow Maimonides writes, in a letter dated from , "On the day I received that terrible news [of David's death], I fell ill and remained in bed for about a year, suffering from a sore boil, fever, and depression, and was almost given up.
The phenomenology of sorrow Just as the English scholar, Robert Burton, was able to develop an "anatomy of melancholy", we can develop a rough anatomy of sorrow. Indeed, William Styron, in Darkness Visible , describes depressed individuals as having "their minds turned agonizingly inward" [ 8 ] The sense of time is also different in sorrow and depression.
Thus, when Martin Luther was confronted with the imminent death of his beloved daughter, Magdalena, he is said to have uttered these words to the girl, as she lay in his arms: "Lena dear, my little daughter, thou wilt rise again and shine like a star—yea, as the sun!
This counter-intuitive perspective is nicely elucidated by the psychotherapist and former Catholic monk Thomas Moore: "Sorrow removes your attention from the active life and focuses it on the things that matter most. Kay Redfield Jamison, a psychologist who suffers from bipolar disorder, has observed that "Artistic expression can be the beneficiary of either visionary and ecstatic or, painful, frightening, and melancholic experiences.
More typical of the depressive period and its effect on creativity is this description from essayist Virginia Heffernan: "Depression brought to me a new rationing of resources: for every twenty-four hours, I got about three, then two, then one hour worth of life reserves—personality, conversation, motion. Smith: Overshadowed by a blade of grass, Soaked by one rain-drop, Struck down by a dandelion seed. Carried off by a sparrow Indeed, it is hard to find a better phenomenological description of such soul-killing suffering than in William Styron's account of his severe and intractable depression, in Darkness Visible : "Death was now a daily presence, blowing over me in cold gusts.
A bridge from bereavement to clinical depression A recent and very influential book, The Loss of Sadness , has argued that psychiatrists, over the last few decades, have "medicalized" sadness—in effect, lumping normal, adaptive sadness in with clinical depression, by failing to appreciate the emotional context in which depression takes place [ 22 ].
In the Iliad , we find this description of Achilles' grief, after the death of his beloved friend, Patroclus: "A black cloud of grief swallowed up Achilles. The biology of sorrow? Conclusion Though our mythic and literary heritage depicts ordinary grief and clinical depression as more or less discrete existential categories, it seems more likely that these conditions lie along a complex spectrum or continuum of dysphoric states. Thomas advises some of the following remedies:.
Weeping - St. Thomas makes the very interesting observation that where there is laughter and smiling there is increased joy. But weeping, rather than increasing sorrow, actually diminishes it. How is this? For when we weep, we release sorrow. Tears have a way of flushing it from our system.
It is a rather beautiful and freeing insight , especially for some of us who were raised with more stoic sensibilities. Many of us, especially men, were told not to cry, not to show our emotions.
But of course such an approach seldom works, for the more we shut up our sorrow, the more the mind ruminates on it. Better to weep and let it run out through our tears. Sharing our sorrows with friends — Scripture says, Woe to the solitary man, for if he should fall, he has no one to lift him up Eccl The danger to avoid in sorrow is turning in on ourselves.
We often need the perspective of others. Thomas says, the greatest of all pleasures consists in the contemplation of truth. Now every pleasure assuages pain … hence the contemplation of truth assuages pain or sorrow, and the more so, the more perfectly one is a lover of wisdom I IIae This is even more so with the contemplation of sacred truth, wherein we are reminded of our final glory and happiness if we persevere.
Pleasure - We have already seen that St. If one is in pain or sorrow, pleasure is also helpful remedy. In sudden and heavy loss or sorrow, some period of quiet convalescence maybe called for. But there comes a time when one must go forth and savor the better things in life once again.
The Book of Psalms says, When sorrow was great within me, your consolation brought joy to my soul Ps In the midst of pain, God will often send consoling pleasures, which should be appreciated and savored with proper moderation, of course. As a priest, I sometimes minister to those who have suddenly lost a spouse or other beloved family member. In these situations, I find that some of those who mourn feel almost guilty about venturing out into the world again to enjoy the better things: laughter, good company, entertainment, etc.
But for the survivors to cease living does little to honor those who died. There comes a time, after a suitable period of mourning, when one must go forth and reclaim the joy of life again. A warm bath and a nap — This is a rather charming remedy recommended by St.
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